DIVORCE!!

Urgh! Divorce a common word among Maldivians. Right?
A couple steps into the holly relation of marriage with lots of hope, dreams and foremost with boundless love. Then what is the reason for them to come up with the word divorce just within few months or years of their relation.
I asked myself a hundred times this question but came up with the same points each time.. I would like to share it with you too.

· Early marriage
· Too much engaged in professional life
· First baby

EARLY MARRIAGE:-
Longtime back, during the time of our ancestors, marriage was a common cultural activity. When a girl turns fifteen her parents give her hand to someone whom she even don’t know. And finally what happens? It brings out throbbing outcomes. The girl becomes pregnant within a month of her new life, and everything changes. Husband gets upset as the girl couldn’t come up to his expectation. Finally it leads to an argument which ends with the word “vari kohfa”. After delivery she marries to another man.. So on it goes.
And what about today everyone has dreams. Before marriage boyfriend will promise to bring the stars on the sky even. Though so when you enter the real life you would come to see everything a dream. Now he is your husband, so from then onwards he will say a big no to all your enjoyment. And your dreams will remain as dreams which will create a wall in between the lovely couple. As soon as the wall is created its one of the hardest thing to b removed and mostly it takes both of them to the seats in front of the judge and within minutes the two souls separate and head off onto their own way and never looks back.

PROFESSIONAL LIFE
When both husband and wife engage themselves in professional life sometimes they might not be able to give time to each other for so long that it creates misunderstanding between them. Most of the people in Maldives work in private companies which doesn’t have particular time for work. Sometimes it goes from morning nine to night eleven. This brings the companies number of income but the lives of the couple with lot of problems. And the couple doesn’t have enough time for each other and finally cause the love in between them to fade off.

FIRST NEW BORN BABY
A baby brings lot of fortune and dreams to a couple’s life. When the first time the doctor confirms that the wife is expecting they jumps up into air with excitement. They dreams about the baby all the day throughout the nine months and do lot of shopping. Once when the baby breaths in the air of this environment things change. For the first few months always there would be some relatives inside the couple’s room and they would never get time to spend together with each other alone. This causes the husband to feel left alone. In addition to this the expense also increase and sometimes that also lead to an argument.

***ASHLYN***